怎样礼貌的拒绝美国人的表白

首先找准自己的感觉。

1、如果女生也喜欢男生的话，那女生就俏皮的说，我也喜欢你很久了，就等你向我表白呢，不禁表达了自己的想法，也会让对方觉得开心。

2、如果女生不喜欢男生的话，怕伤害他的话，就说，我考虑考虑，或者说，我觉得做朋友我们聊得来，我希望我能够把你当闺蜜一样，在我心情好与不好的情况下都能和你分享。

3、在或者是女生只把他当朋友的话就说，开什么玩笑，你觉得这个笑话很好笑吗？我们是哥们，我不想别的因素破坏我们之间的友谊。

1、别说是春风十里，哪怕是世间的锦绣河山千万里，都不及我回头的瞬间看见你。

Not to mention the ten miles of spring breeze, even the world's beautiful rivers and mountains, are not as good as the moment I look back to see you

2、不管将来发生什么事，你变成什么样子，你依然是我最爱的。

No matter what happens in the future and what you become, you are still my favorite

3、只有一件事可以让灵魂完整，那就是爱。

There is only one thing that can make the soul whole That is love

4、我若在你心上，情敌三千又何妨，你若在我身旁，负了天下又怎样。

If I were in your heart, what would it be like to have 3,000 rivals If you were by my side, what would it be like to have lost the world

5、什么都是一阵风，风刮过就不记得，前程那么好，你不要回头看！

Everything is a gust of wind, the wind blows, you don't remember, the future is so good, you don't want to look back!

6、春水初生，春林初盛，春风十里，都不如你。

Spring water is born, spring forest is flourishing, spring breeze is ten miles, are not as good as you

7、地球仍然转着，世间依旧善变，而我永远爱你。

The earth is still turning, the world is still changeable, and I love you forever

8、忆归期，数归期，梦见虽多相遇稀，何日重逢，不再分离？

Recalling period, number of return period, dreaming that although many encounters are rare, when will we meet again, no longer separated

9、有些人用嘴巴去爱，而我是用心去爱，也许我会失去很多，但我不会后悔。

Some people love with their mouths, but I love with my heart Maybe I will lose a lot, but I will not regret it

10、我知道美丽会老去，生命之外还有生命，我知道风里有诗句，不知道你。

I know beauty will grow old, life is beyond life, I know there are poems in the wind, I don't know you

11、好的感情，不是一下子就把你感动晕，而是细水长流的把你宠坏。

Good feelings do not move you in a flash, but spoil you in a long stream

12、我拒绝更好更圆的月亮，拒绝未知的疯狂，拒绝声色的张扬，不拒绝你。

I refuse the better and rounder moon, the unknown madness, the voice publicity, and you

13、问你一个好傻的问题，如果我喜欢上了你，该怎么办？

Ask you a silly question What should I do if I like you

14、未来怎么样不重要，重要的是未来有你相伴。

It doesn't matter what the future will be like What matters is your company in the future

15、好想做你的手机，揣在你怀里，捧在你手里，看在你眼里，记在你心里！

Want to be your mobile phone, put it in your arms, hold it in your hands, see it in your eyes, remember it in your heart!

16、这辈子最疯狂的事，就是爱上了你，最大的希望，就是有你陪我疯一辈子。

The craziest thing in my life is to fall in love with you The greatest hope is to have you accompany me crazy all my life

17、我爱你，不因为你有车有房，只是那天的阳光很好，你傻得很是可爱。

I love you, not because you have a car and a house, but because the sunshine is very good that day, you are silly and lovely

18、我心里有个小秘密你想不想知道？让风悄悄告诉你，我喜欢你，真的好喜欢。

I have a little secret in my heart Do you want to know it Let the wind tell you quietly, I like you, really like it

19、下雪了，好想变成雪花，这样就可以落在你的肩头。

It's snowing, I want to be a snowflake, so that I can fall on your shoulder

20、好不容易才在一起，用来生气多可惜。

It's a pity to get angry when we get together

21、我很喜欢你，就像天气预报说明天有雨，我都能听成有你。

I like you very much, just like the weather forecast says there will be rain tomorrow, I can hear you

22、不是没了你，我就没人要了。而是没了你，我不管谁都不想要。

It's not without you, I won't have anybody to ask for it But without you, I don't care who wants it

23、对你说过的情话，都经得起岁月的考验。

All the love words you have said can stand the test of time

24、你不用多好，我喜欢就好。

You don't have to be as good as I like

25、我和时间做了笔交易，用我来世，换得你今生相伴。

I made a deal with time, using my life, in exchange for your companionship in this life

26、最好的恋爱大概便是，我崇拜你像个英雄，你疼爱我像个孩子。

The best love is probably that I adore you like a hero, you love me like a child

27、爱你，我梦一样的夙愿，甜美的爱情，会更加美丽地，继续下去。

Love you, my dream-like long-cherished wish, sweet love, will be more beautiful, continue

28、如果终点有你，那不论多远的路，我都愿意去走。

If there is you at the end, I will go no matter how far it is

29、最幸福的不过未来某一天，睡前吻你，半夜抱你，梦中有你。

The happiest thing is to kiss you before going to bed, hold you in the middle of the night, and have you in your dreams someday

30、猫虽然怕水，但喜欢吃鱼。就像我经常嫌弃你，但还是想和你永不分离。

Cats are afraid of water, but they like fish It's like I always hate you, but I still want to be with you forever

31、吾爱有三，日月与卿，日为朝，月为暮，卿为朝朝暮暮。

I love three things, sun and moon and Qing, day for the morning, month for the evening, Qing for the evening

32、有些事现在不做，就一辈子也不会做了。

If you don't do something now, you won't do it for a lifetime

33、最大的幸福就是，在我喜欢你的时候你也恰好喜欢着我。

The greatest happiness is that when I like you, you just like me

34、我所认为的最深沉的爱，就是我把自己，活成了你的样子。

The deepest love I think is that I live like you

35、我爱你，为了你的幸福，我愿意放弃一切包括你。

I love you, for your happiness, I am willing to give up everything including you

36、时间会告诉我们，简单的喜欢最长远，平凡中的陪伴最心安，懂你的人最温暖。

Time will tell us that simple like the longest, ordinary accompany the most secure, understand your people the warmest

37、若时光赐我欢喜，皆是因为你。

If time gives me joy, it's all because of you

38、我越是逃离，却越是靠近你，我越是背过脸，却越是看见你。

The more I flee, the closer I get to you, the more I turn my back, the more I see you

1、其实我也希望能对你说出这句话，但无论如何我不能骗人。 以这句话作为开场白似乎有点残酷，而且其实一说出口，对方应该就会立刻明了你所表达的真实意图。但这样也没什么不好，

就开宗明义的表明立场总比含糊其辞绕圈子要简单的多，现实中的感情和文艺爱情片不一样，越简单反而越轻松。 2、和你在一起时放松又舒服，但我们之间就是不来电。 能遇到一个可以让你完全放下心防自然相处的异性朋友真的很难得，但如果因此而不好意思将拒绝的话说出口，毫无疑问这是一着错棋！如果你是一个对爱情和友情都很重视的人，那么

不能马虎，一定要将关系撇清楚，这对你们朋友关系的未来走向也大有好处。 3、我想我给不了你想要的。 如果你确定无法对他产生异性相吸，且是朋友以外的感觉，那么不妨直接点告诉他真相，在这个时候善意的谎言或者沉默不语都不是合适的回应，要知道真的

敢于直面惨淡的人生…… 4、我现在还不能完全确定自己的感觉，也不希望草率的展开一段感情。 这句话是目前为止最含蓄的回答，也是对满怀希望的告白者

最低的一句话。然而虽然得体有礼，这句话却暗含一定风险，对方很有可能认为其中依然存在着成功希望，如果有足够的耐心持观望态度并且继续努力，也许接下来还会坚持不懈上演一系列追求举动，你依然无法真正躲开纠错复杂的感情纷扰。 但如果你对他也持观望态度，只是目前还不能明确自己的真正想法，那么在回答中留有余地，为将来二人关系的发展做准备，也是不错的选择。 5、我想要的是一份平平淡淡的普通感情，张扬高调的情节不适合我。 有些人喜欢把告白当做标记感情开始的一个出其不意的惊喜，所以会在你毫无预料和准备的情况突然脱口而出，在他们设计的情节中你应该会先措手不及然后感动的热泪盈眶，最终你们幸福的在一起。 然而现实往往不按常理出牌，真实情况是你的确对他的告白感到束手无措，但根本不会有接下来的感动。记住，如果他真的不是你的菜，这时候一定要先稳住心神，镇定自若地说出上面那句话。 6、我在乎你，但我并不爱你。 这是面对告白一个委婉得体而又直接明确的回答，既能恰到好处的照顾对方感受，使场面不至于太过尴尬僵持，又清晰地表达了自己的立场。做不成恋人，起码还能做朋友，而且让他知道在你心目中他的位置有多么重要，也是非常有效果的一种安慰。

表白被拒绝了该怎么办

英文意思是：What to do is to be rejected

英文也可以读作：The thing to do is to be rejected

what to do

英 [hwɔt tu: du:] 美 [hwɑt tu du]

干吗

rejected

n

被弃之物，落选者

adj

拒绝的

v

排斥;拒收;拒绝( reject的过去式和过去分词 );（因质量差）不用

　　05版**中，伊丽莎白在一个阴沉的雨天拒绝了达西的求婚，两人的对话成就让人难以忘怀的高潮。让我们一起回到两百年前那个敢爱敢恨的伊丽莎白拒绝达西的那一幕。

　　DARCY: (cont'd) I came to Rosings with the single object of seeing youI had to see you

　　LIZZIE: Me

　　DARCY: I've fought against my better judgement, my family's expectation

　　(pause)

　　DARCY: (cont'd) The inferiority of your birth my rank and circumstance (stumblingly) all those thingsbut I'm willing to put them asideand ask you to end my agony

　　LIZZIE: I don't understand

　　DARCY: (with passion) I love you Most ardently

　　Lizzie stares at him

　　DARCY: (cont'd) Please do me the honour of accepting my hand

　　A silence Lizzie struggles with the most painful confusion of feeling Finally she recovers

　　LIZZIE: (voice shaking) Sir, I appreciate the struggle you have been through, and I am very sorry to have caused you pain Believe me, it was unconsciously done

　　A silence Gathering her shawl, she gets to her feet

　　DARCY: (stares) Is this your reply

　　LIZZIE: Yes, sir

　　DARCY: Are you laughing at me

　　LIZZIE: No!

　　DARCY: Are you rejecting me

　　LIZZIE: (pause) I'm sure that the feelings which, as you've told me, have hindered your regard, will help you in overcoming it

　　A terrible silence, as this sinks in Neither of them can move At last, Darcy speaks He is very pale

　　DARCY: Might I ask why, with so little endeavour at civility, I am thus repulsed

　　LIZZIE: (trembling with emotion) I might as well enquire why, with so evident a design of insulting me, you chose to tell me that you liked me against your better judgement If I was uncivil, that was some excuse -

　　DARCY: Believe me, I didn't mean

　　LIZZIE: But I have other reasons, you know I have!

　　DARCY: What reasons

　　LIZZIE: Do you think that anything might tempt me to accept the man who has ruined, perhaps for ever, the happiness of a most beloved sister

　　Silence Darcy looks as if he's been struck across the face

　　LIZZIE: (cont'd) Do you deny it, Mr Darcy That you've separated a young couple who loved each other, exposing your friend to the censure of the world for caprice, and my sister to its derision for disappointed hopes, and involving them both in misery of the acutest kind

　　DARCY: I do not deny it

　　LIZZIE: (blurts out) How could you do it

　　DARCY: Because I believed your sister indifferent to him

　　LIZZIE: Indifferent

　　DARCY: I watched them most carefully, and realized his attachment was much deeper than hers

　　LIZZIE: That's because she's shy!

　　DARCY: Bingley too is modest, and was persuaded that she didn't feel strongly for him

　　LIZZIE: Because you suggested it!

　　DARCY: I did it for his own good

　　LIZZIE: My sister hardly shows her true feelings to me! (pause, takes a breath) I suppose you suspect that his fortune had same bearing on the matter

　　DARCY: ( sharply) No! I wouldn't do your sister the dishonour Though it was suggested (stops)

　　LIZZIE: What was

　　DARCY: It was made perfectly clear thatan advantageous marriage (stops)

　　LIZZIE: Did my sister give that impression

　　DARCY: No!

　　An awkward pause

　　DARCY: (cont'd) There was, however, I have to admit the matter of your family

　　LIZZIE: Our want of connection Mr Bingley didn't vex himself about that!

　　DARCY: No, it was more than that

　　LIZZIE: How, sir

　　DARCY: (pause, very uncomfortable) It pains me to say this, but it was the lack of propriety shown by your mother, your three younger sisters - even, on occasion, your father Forgive me

　　Lizzie blushes He has hit home Darcy paces up and down

　　DARCY: (cont'd) You and your sister - I must exclude from this

　　Darcy stops He is in turmoil Lizzie glares at him, ablaze

　　参考翻译：

　　- 这几个月对于我来说是一种折磨，我来罗新斯只是为了见你。

　　- 我？

　　- 我在与世俗的看法，与我家族的期望对抗，与你的身世，与我的阶级对抗，我要把他们统统抛开，让你终结我的痛苦。

　　- 我不明白你在说什么。

　　- 我爱你，最真挚的爱。请给与我荣幸，接受我的手吧。

　　- 先生，我感激你的挣扎。但我非常遗憾，给你的只有痛苦，这个决定是潜意思下的。

　　- 这就是你的回复？

　　- 是的，先生。

　　- 你是在嘲笑我吗？

　　- 不

　　- 你是在拒绝我？

　　- 我相信，你心中阶级的门槛会帮助你克服痛苦。

　　- 我能否问你，为什么我竟会遭受如此无礼的拒绝？

　　- 那么我能否问你，为什么你说喜欢我是违背了你自己的判断力？要是我果真是无礼的，那么，这还不够作为我无礼的理由吗？

　　- 相信我，我不是那个意思。

　　- 但你知道我还有别的理由。

　　- 什么理由？

　　- 一个毁我最亲爱的姐姐幸福的人，怎么会打动我的心去爱他呢？你能否认你拆散了一对相爱的恋人，让你的朋友被大家指责为朝三暮四，让我的姐姐被大家嘲笑为奢望空想，你叫他们俩受尽了痛苦？

　　- 我并没有否认这些。

　　- 你怎么能做出这样的事情？

　　- 我认为你姐姐觉得他无关紧要，我觉得他的爱要比她更多。

　　- 那是因为她害羞！

　　- 彬格莱被说服了，她的感觉并不强烈。

　　- 是你说服他的。

　　- 我这样做是为了他好。

　　- 我姐姐几乎都不向我表露她真实的感觉。我怀疑是因为他富有的关系？

　　- 我无意使你姐姐难堪。

　　- 这暗示着

　　- 什么？

　　- 这门婚事明显是为了谋取利益的

　　- 我姐姐给你那种印象？

　　- 不！

　　- 不。 有，然而，你的家人

　　- 我们对社交的渴求？

　　- 不，比那更甚。

　　- 怎样更甚，先生？

　　- 你母亲，你妹妹们，你父亲有失身份的表现……请原谅我，你和你的姐姐当然排除在外……