是爱情还是"Crush"

是爱情还是"Crush",第1张

曾经随手写过一句话,

“似乎很容易对一个人‘怦然心动’,但几乎没有真正爱上过一个人。”

“怦然心动”的感觉很容易消散,短则两三天、一两周,长则一两个月……

自从知道了"Crush"这个词,才发现它能恰到好处地描述这种状态。比“怦然心动”更准确。

陷入对一个人的Crush,可能没有什么具体的原因,或许是觉得他声音好听,或者只是某一次不期然的眼神相撞……

总之是在你完全不了解对方的情况下,就被他强烈吸引。

Crush并不是真正的喜欢和爱,却也算得上是一场美丽的内心戏,虽短暂,但足够绚烂。

如果你误把自己对一个人的crush当作“爱情”,那很可能,当你走近他,这场幻想会当即破灭。

所以,当你陷入对某个人的crush时,你可以任由这份美好的感觉在心里绽放一段时间,但最好不要贸然迎上前去,试图和对方真的发展一段关系

首先,对方可能会被你莫名其妙的突然表白吓跑;

其次,被你用滤镜美化过的事物,现实中仍然美好的概率并不大呀。

如果爱情是一场肺结核,那么crush则是一场感冒。

症状轻,好得快,但时不时就会发生一次。

它可以完全和对方无关,只是你自己一个人内心的一场美丽的烟火。

静静地将它收在心里,一边欣赏它的美丽,一边等着它慢慢熄灭吧。

ps:作家刘瑜有一篇文章,题目就是《Crush》,收在她的《送你一颗子弹》中,感兴趣的小伙伴可以去看看。

高中男孩斯科特·诺里斯(卢卡斯·提尔 Lucas Till 饰)英俊帅气,爽朗风趣,作为校足球队的球员他在赛场上叱咤风云,生活中又有美丽开朗的女孩朱尔丝(莎拉·伯格 Sarah Bolger 饰)陪伴,可谓春风得意,除了不久前受伤的膝盖让他有些烦恼。在聚光灯下的斯科特, 自然不会注意到暗处有一双眼睛始终凝望着他。那个女孩名叫贝丝(克里斯塔尔·里德 Crystal Reed 饰),性格有些阴郁的她深深迷恋斯科特,长期的情感压抑令贝丝的内心饱受折磨。笨拙怪异的表白根本得不到心上人的热烈回应,一切皆化作徒劳。 迷恋与被迷恋,跟踪与被跟踪,狂野破碎的青春,一切朝向失控的彼方……

恋爱干货:脱单四步走

1、初始动力

当你想要找他的时候,需要的是先有一个目标,你需要做的就是让crush有想认识你的欲望,也就是提升他对你的初始动力同。比如:如何加他的微信,如何要到他的联络方式,如何从陌生人变为普通朋友。

初始动力标志:你跟crush的关系还不熟悉。

目的:让crush有想跟你认识的欲望不抗拒你。

方法:提升外在形象,优化展示面。

错误:套路。

2、吸引

好不容易加了crush的微信,他也愿意跟你聊天,对你不冷不热,平常交往的话题也就是于生活和工作上的,那么你就停留在了吸引的过程,这个阶段的重点是展示自己的价值。

吸引标志:crush愿意跟你交往,但仅限于普通朋友关系。

目的:让crush喜欢和你交往,对你产生一定的兴趣。

方法:基本信息的交流,让彼此有所了解,表现自信,真诚。

错误:急于表白,急于提升关系。

3、暧昧

如何让crush不把你当成普通朋友,那你必须让他跟你暧昧起来,要勇于打破温馨感。

这时可以调侃crush,也可以跟他调情,并且可以尝试模糊邀约。

但是这里面的调情、暧昧和肢体接触一定是有可退性的,不能操之过急。

周一请你吃饭哦。

我开始期待周一了。

我期待的可不止周一。

4、确立关系

当你们聊天暧昧,在约会中牵手拥抱,接下来就是跟crush去确立关系,你要做的就是把crush带到私密空间,对他表白。因为到了这个阶段,可以很顺其自然就能在一起了。

在这阶段你们成为了男女朋友关系,一起享受生活的乐趣。

确立关系的标志:能约会,能牵手,拥抱,接吻。

目的:用表白来肯定你们的关系。

方法:进一步你们的肢体接触。

错误:太过激进。

1英文表白的经典语句

01 I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you 我爱你,不是因为你是一个怎样的人,而是因为我喜欢与你在一起时的感觉。

02 It is impossible to love and to be wise要爱又兼有理性是不可能的。 03 No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry 没有人值得你流泪,值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣。

04 Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have 爱你的人如果没有按你所希望的方式来爱你,那并不代表他们没有全心全意地爱你。 05 To love and to be loved is the greatest happiness of existence爱人和被人爱是人生最大的幸福。

06 True love's the gift which God has given to man alone beneath the heaven真爱是上帝单独赐予普天下芸芸众生的礼物。 07 A true friend is the one who holds your hand and touches your heart一个真正的朋友会握着你的手,触动你的心。

08The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them 失去某人,最糟糕的莫过于,他近在身旁,却犹如远在天边。 09Love and a cough cannot be hid爱情跟咳嗽一样是掩饰不了的。

10 Never stop smiling, not even when you're sad, some man fall in love with your smile永远都不要停止微笑,即使在你难过的时候,说不定有人会因为你的微笑而爱上你。 11To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world 对于世界而言,你是一个人;但是对于某个人,你是他的整个世界。

12 Love is not only a sentiment but also an art爱情不仅仅是感情,它也是艺术。 13 Love triumphs over everthing Love has no age, no limit and no death 爱情战胜一切。

爱情没有寿命,没有极限,不会死亡。 14 Dont' spend time with someone who doesn't care spending it with you不要把时间花在一个不在乎与你分享的人身上。

15 Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful 在遇到梦中人之前,上天也许会安排我们先遇到别的人;在我们终于遇见心仪的人时,便应当心存感激。 16 Love is ever matter of comedies, and how and then of tragedies爱情常是喜剧,偶尔是悲剧。

17 Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened 不要因为结束而哭泣,微笑吧,为你的曾经拥有。 18 There will always be people who'll hurt you, so you need to continue trusting, just be careful生活中总会有人想伤害你,你仍然需要继续相信别人,只是小心点而已。

19 Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you 不要为那些不愿在你身上花费时间的人而浪费你的时间。 20 Love is a chord in life, not a solo爱是人生的和弦,而不是孤独的独奏曲。

21 Every man is a poet when he is in love每个恋爱中的人都是诗人。 22 Become a better person and be sure to know who you are before meeting someone new and hoping that person knows who you are做一个更好的人,确信在遇见一个新的人之前知道自己是谁,也希望那个人知道你是谁。

23Within you I lose myself, without you I find myself wanting to be lost again有了你,我迷失了自我。失去你,我多么希望自己再度迷失。

可以发成短信的形式哦。

2英文告白的句子

1 Just because of lovingyou is avoided figure, myheart didn't open is silently emotions, Today, I finally get up the courage to say 'I love you' 2 I can meet a person in a minute, like takes one hour, and a day to love someone of time, but it will take me a whole life to forget you but the time 3 I this lifetime best fortune is know you, and the largest misfortune is can't have you Maybe you will meet someone you love, but has not met the second portrait me so love you the person 4 years, I have been searching for the ideal love, but no one can like you in the first moment moved me, is becoming more and more deep impress 5 In love the world, I have nothing at all, also know nothing, emotionally stop, I wish you are first visitor and eternal master, accompanying with my spoil me, Entire life! 6 I feel like you have for a long time People say: love a person is never requiting But I will you give me return - let me live all my love to you! 7 I love you, till death do us part 8 Love with is not the same, like never frown even when you don't need others' response; Love is the seesaw need a man sitting opposite with your interaction, close to you feel, are you willing to sitting in front of me 9 I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am with you together of felling 10 No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who makes you so, won't make you cry 11 The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right biside him knowing you can't have him 12 Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile 13 To the world you may be one person, One person, but to one person you may be the world 14don't aste your tleir time to waste their time on you 15 Someone dosen't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have 16 Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect 17 Few wrong people before meetingthecenter one, maybe god wants us to meet a few wrong people, When we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful Eighteen Don't cry because it came to an end, smile because it happened 19 I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am with you together of felling 20 No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who makes you so, won't make you cry 21 The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right biside him knowing you can't have him 22 Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile 23 To the world you may be one person, One person, but to one person you may be the world 24 Don't aste your tleir time to waste their time on you 25 Someone dosen't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have 26 Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect 27 Few wrong people before meetingthecenter one, maybe god wants us to meet a few wrong people, When we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful 28 Don't cry because it came to an end, smile because it happened 29 Romantic love ambition makes people much pain 30 All made by love, or love by all moved Without vested before is request, after a command 31 Today I withdrew all my love for you, because I will generously give you again 32 Loyal my heart is filled with love, I cannot estimate oneself enjoy the wealth 1正是因为爱才悄悄的躲开,躲开的是身影,躲不开的是默默的情怀;今天我终于鼓起勇气,向你表达我的爱。

2遇上一个人要一分钟的时间,喜欢一个人只需一小时的时间,爱上一个人要一天的时间,可要我忘记你却要用上一生的时间。 3我这辈子最大的幸运就是认识你, 而最大的不幸却是不能拥有你也许你会遇到你深爱的人,可是却不会遇到第二人像我这么爱你的人 4这么多年来,我一直在寻找理想的爱情,但没有一个人能像你那样在最初的时刻打动了我,而且越来越深沉的打动。

5在爱情的世界里,我一无所有,也一无所知,在情感的小站里,我愿你是第一位来客,也是永远的主人,伴着我宠着我;一生一世! 6我觉得我暗恋你已经很久了。 人们说:爱一个人是不求回报的。

但是我却要你给我回报---让我在有生之年把我的爱全部送给你! 7我爱你,至死不渝 8喜欢跟爱是不一样的,喜欢是荡秋千可以自得其乐不需别人的回应;爱是跷跷板需要一个人坐在对面与你互动,贴近你内心的感觉,你是否愿意一直坐在我的对面? 9我爱你,不是因为你是一个怎样的人,而是因为我喜欢与你你在一起时的感觉。 10没有人值得你流泪,值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣。

11失去某人,最糟糕的莫过于,他近在身旁,却犹如远在天边。 12纵然伤心,也不。

3英文表白句子有哪些

表白的英文句子

1、Wish you a happy new year and a good fortune in the coming year when we will share our happiness, think of our good friends, andour dreams come true!

在这快乐分享的时刻,思念好友的时刻,美梦成真的时刻,祝你—新年快乐,佳节如意!

2、Every day I miss you It is a hard time for me to miss you but itis even harder not to do so In such a contrary mood, I miss you deeply! A happy Valentines Day to you!

在每个想念的日子,想你不容易,不想你更难,愿以一片难懂的心情,深深思念你!情人节快乐!

3、If living on the earth is a mission from the lord… living with youis the award of the lord

如果活着,是上帝赋予我最大的使命,那么活者有你,将会是上帝赋予我使命的恩赐。

4、Within you I lose myself, without you I find myself wanting to be lost again

有了你,我迷失了自我。失去你,我多么希望自己再度迷失。

5、Love is a chord in life, not a solo

爱是人生的和弦,而不是孤独的独奏曲。

4英文表白优美句子,英文还要翻译成中文

你是我 见 到 过 的最美的女人。

You're the most beautiful woman I've ever seen

You're the most beautiful woman I know

To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world

对于世界而言,你只是芸芸众生中的一人;但是对于某个人而言,你却是他的整个世界。

I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you

我爱你,不是因为你是一个怎样的人,而是因为与你在一起时,我变成了怎样的自己。

If you don't leave me, I'll be by your side until the end

你若不离不弃,我愿生死相依

5求英文的表白句子

To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world

对这个世界来说你只是一个普通人,但是在我心里你就是我的全世界

I can't sleep without youAnd I can't forget youI love you so much

没有你我睡不著,忘记你我做不到,爱你无可救药。

No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry

没有人值得你流泪,值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣。

Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in lovewith your smile

纵然伤心,也不要愁眉不展,因为你不知是谁会爱上你的笑容。

在网上看到的,应该能帮到你。

6英文表白的句子

1I will always love you2As long as I love you3I will right here waiting for you4No matter where you go ,no matter when you go,I will always love you I'm very fond of youYou mean a lot to meI care for you very deeplyI have a crush on youI guess we are in the same wavelengthI can't live without youYou make me feel so specialYou make me a whole 1 单刀直入法 此法适合有勇气、不喜欢拐弯抹角的男士。

Will you marry me? 你愿意嫁给(娶)我吗? Would you be my wife/husband? 你愿意当我的妻子/丈夫吗? 2 迂回暗示法 不确定她是不是想现在结婚?可以旁敲侧击一下。 I think it's time we took some vows 我想是我们该许下誓言的时候了。

I think it's time we settled down我想是我们该稳定下来的时候了。 I want to spend the rest of my life with you 我想与你共度余生。

I want to be with you forever 我要永远与你相守。 3 咬文嚼字法 此法适合喜欢舞文弄墨的男士,求婚的时候也顺便显示一下文采。

Let's get hitched! 我们成为比翼鸟吧! Let's tie the knot! 我们结为连理枝吧!======================================= We've been going out for quite some time now This is said as aprecursorto something elseIt can be a good warm up sentence to tell your partner that you're madly in love with them “precursor”是“前兆”的意思。这可是一个很好的热身句子哦。

你可以它用来告诉你的同伴你正发狂地爱着他/她。 2 I think we have something really special "Something special" refers to a special relationship or feelingsYou would only say this to a girlfriend/boyfriend, not to a platonic friend “something special”指的是特殊的关系或感觉。

你只能说给女朋友或男朋友听,而不是一个一般的朋友。 3 I want to settle down "To settle down" in this context means to settle down with your loverThis is used to give a sense of stability in the relationship “to settle down”在上下文中意思是和你所爱的人一起安定下来,让你们的关系增添稳定的因素。

4 You are my soul-mate Your "soul-mate' is someone that you have a deep and intimate friendship witha soul-mate is also a lover, someone that you have a strong emotional or spiritual bond with 你的“soul-mate”是指某个与你关系很深、很紧密的人。他可以是情人,那个你有强烈感情或在精神上结合在一起的人。

如果你还没有“soul-mate”,就可以对自己说:“OK, where is my soul-mate” 5 I'm ready for a life-long commitment "A life-long commitment" means that you want to spend the rest of your life with someonepretty serious, huh “a life-long commitment”,说出这句话,可就意味着你打算与某人相伴共度余生。相当严肃和认真,是不是?真是不能乱说。

6 Let's tie the knot! Alternative sentence: "let's get hitch!" Both of these sentences are light hearted and humorous ways to suggest marriageOf course, the traditional way to "pop the question" is to ask "will you marry me?" 这句话可以换一种表达方法:“Let's get hitch!”这两句话都是用一种轻松幽默的方式去建议结婚。当然啦,用传统的方式去“pop the question”你可以说“Will you marry me?”(你愿意和我结婚吗?)。

7求十句英语表白情话

1、Believe me,I was prepared for everything ,except you

2、艾莉: Maybe I was a bird in another life

诺亚:If you're a bird , I'm a bird

————我的前世也许是只鸟。

————如果你是一只鸟,那我也是一只鸟。 **《手札情缘》

3、You complete me

Shot up! You had me at Hello, you had me at Hello

————你使我完美起来

————别这么说!第一次见面时你就拥有了我,拥有了我!

4、I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night

————我爱你是我晚上就寝前最想聊天的人。

5、I love you Molly I always have

Ditto

6、Choose me Marry me Let me make you happy

————选我吧,娶我吧,让我给你制造幸福。

7、Love means never having to say you're sorry

————爱,意味着永不说后悔。

8、When I am out , take me as the wind

9、I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you

10、To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world

如何巧妙又机智地夸crush对象让对方更上头

如何巧妙夸暧昧/crush对象

不会吧不会吧,怎么会有人不喜欢被夸夸呢那我们要怎么巧妙又机智地去夸暧昧/crush对象呢

1,不要笼统地夸要明确你夸的优点

比起直接笼统地夸对方:哇你好厉害啊,不如夸的细一点:哇你还会板绘啊!你画的眼睛好好看啊,这样就显得真诚也不是套话。

2,不要重复地夸同一个点

多挖掘对方身上的优点/闪光点,多夸夸不同的地方有些可能对方自己都没有意识到的点会让对方很惊喜很开心哦!

3,多用“回忆夸”法

聊天的时候可以多夸夸以前那些被忽略掉的东西,比如“我记得你上次画的画也很好看

啊“,“你上次的xxx也好厉害啊”,这样不仅让对方心花怒放还不经意间展现了其实你是一直有把对方干的事放在心里的。

4,夸夸的时候可以适当示弱

但是不是让大家贬低自己!就是在对方很擅长,但自己不擅长的地方可以适当示弱一下。

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