怎样拒绝一个人的表白和求交往？？急急急急急急！！！！！！

　　你好：

　　首先要告诉你我们再成长的时候，会面临许许多多的人要拒绝。但是拒绝是讲究方法的，有事要直接拒绝，有时要间接拒绝，而有时有需要委婉的拒绝。要根据情况决定。以下有几个方法，你可以参可以下：

　　1如果有一个人对你表达有爱慕的意思，而你又对他没有感觉，你就得在尽量维护对方的自尊的情况下委婉拒绝。为了减少拒爱给对方的心理伤害，也使对方更易于接受，就必需设法维护对方的心理平衡，尽量减少对方的内心挫折。

　　你可以采取的方法有：先夸赞一下对方的长相，人品或者其他什么的。然后再说一下自己不能接受的理由。当然理由要合适，尽量符合实际。最好是有利于对方的，比如自己怎么怎么不好，我们在一起你会怎么怎么吃亏等。把不好的一面让自己承受。这种方法比较适合对方是很讲究的人，他听懂了你的意思，就不会再来讨厌你了，同时他自己又维护了自尊。

　　2如果有一个人在你不同意的情况下总是缠着你，那么你就要坚决的拒绝了。不能因此而犹豫不决。因为如果你的回答不够坚决，会让对方误会，以为你在考验他，导致对方一直纠缠着你。对这样的人你可以说：“对不起，我对你真的没有感觉，请你以后不要再来骚扰我了，，谢谢。”这个方法主要适合对一些不自觉的人。

　　3再给你讲一下，如果你拒绝了一个人，就尽量在拒绝后，少和对方来往，可以和他拉开距离，刻意的远离他，不要让他对你有任何的幻想。尤其是当他找你出去玩的时候，你要找一个比较合理的理由拒绝。

　　以上是我总结的，希望对你有所帮助。

单相思？　

　　——推荐英文歌曲MP3《Colour

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　　有亲亲我我的，自然还有落单的。感情中的游移不定比直截了当的拒绝更牵绊人，更劳心伤神。《夜幕下的爱人》即是如此一首情歌：深爱的人躲躲闪闪，火热的心没有回应，挨得很近，却觉得咫尺天涯。——爱在辗转难眠中煎熬，苦啊~~~~

　　05版**中，伊丽莎白在一个阴沉的雨天拒绝了达西的求婚，两人的对话成就让人难以忘怀的高潮。让我们一起回到两百年前那个敢爱敢恨的伊丽莎白拒绝达西的那一幕。

　　DARCY: (cont'd) I came to Rosings with the single object of seeing youI had to see you

　　LIZZIE: Me

　　DARCY: I've fought against my better judgement, my family's expectation

　　(pause)

　　DARCY: (cont'd) The inferiority of your birth my rank and circumstance (stumblingly) all those thingsbut I'm willing to put them asideand ask you to end my agony

　　LIZZIE: I don't understand

　　DARCY: (with passion) I love you Most ardently

　　Lizzie stares at him

　　DARCY: (cont'd) Please do me the honour of accepting my hand

　　A silence Lizzie struggles with the most painful confusion of feeling Finally she recovers

　　LIZZIE: (voice shaking) Sir, I appreciate the struggle you have been through, and I am very sorry to have caused you pain Believe me, it was unconsciously done

　　A silence Gathering her shawl, she gets to her feet

　　DARCY: (stares) Is this your reply

　　LIZZIE: Yes, sir

　　DARCY: Are you laughing at me

　　LIZZIE: No!

　　DARCY: Are you rejecting me

　　LIZZIE: (pause) I'm sure that the feelings which, as you've told me, have hindered your regard, will help you in overcoming it

　　A terrible silence, as this sinks in Neither of them can move At last, Darcy speaks He is very pale

　　DARCY: Might I ask why, with so little endeavour at civility, I am thus repulsed

　　LIZZIE: (trembling with emotion) I might as well enquire why, with so evident a design of insulting me, you chose to tell me that you liked me against your better judgement If I was uncivil, that was some excuse -

　　DARCY: Believe me, I didn't mean

　　LIZZIE: But I have other reasons, you know I have!

　　DARCY: What reasons

　　LIZZIE: Do you think that anything might tempt me to accept the man who has ruined, perhaps for ever, the happiness of a most beloved sister

　　Silence Darcy looks as if he's been struck across the face

　　LIZZIE: (cont'd) Do you deny it, Mr Darcy That you've separated a young couple who loved each other, exposing your friend to the censure of the world for caprice, and my sister to its derision for disappointed hopes, and involving them both in misery of the acutest kind

　　DARCY: I do not deny it

　　LIZZIE: (blurts out) How could you do it

　　DARCY: Because I believed your sister indifferent to him

　　LIZZIE: Indifferent

　　DARCY: I watched them most carefully, and realized his attachment was much deeper than hers

　　LIZZIE: That's because she's shy!

　　DARCY: Bingley too is modest, and was persuaded that she didn't feel strongly for him

　　LIZZIE: Because you suggested it!

　　DARCY: I did it for his own good

　　LIZZIE: My sister hardly shows her true feelings to me! (pause, takes a breath) I suppose you suspect that his fortune had same bearing on the matter

　　DARCY: ( sharply) No! I wouldn't do your sister the dishonour Though it was suggested (stops)

　　LIZZIE: What was

　　DARCY: It was made perfectly clear thatan advantageous marriage (stops)

　　LIZZIE: Did my sister give that impression

　　DARCY: No!

　　An awkward pause

　　DARCY: (cont'd) There was, however, I have to admit the matter of your family

　　LIZZIE: Our want of connection Mr Bingley didn't vex himself about that!

　　DARCY: No, it was more than that

　　LIZZIE: How, sir

　　DARCY: (pause, very uncomfortable) It pains me to say this, but it was the lack of propriety shown by your mother, your three younger sisters - even, on occasion, your father Forgive me

　　Lizzie blushes He has hit home Darcy paces up and down

　　DARCY: (cont'd) You and your sister - I must exclude from this

　　Darcy stops He is in turmoil Lizzie glares at him, ablaze

　　参考翻译：

　　- 这几个月对于我来说是一种折磨，我来罗新斯只是为了见你。

　　- 我？

　　- 我在与世俗的看法，与我家族的期望对抗，与你的身世，与我的阶级对抗，我要把他们统统抛开，让你终结我的痛苦。

　　- 我不明白你在说什么。

　　- 我爱你，最真挚的爱。请给与我荣幸，接受我的手吧。

　　- 先生，我感激你的挣扎。但我非常遗憾，给你的只有痛苦，这个决定是潜意思下的。

　　- 这就是你的回复？

　　- 是的，先生。

　　- 你是在嘲笑我吗？

　　- 不

　　- 你是在拒绝我？

　　- 我相信，你心中阶级的门槛会帮助你克服痛苦。

　　- 我能否问你，为什么我竟会遭受如此无礼的拒绝？

　　- 那么我能否问你，为什么你说喜欢我是违背了你自己的判断力？要是我果真是无礼的，那么，这还不够作为我无礼的理由吗？

　　- 相信我，我不是那个意思。

　　- 但你知道我还有别的理由。

　　- 什么理由？

　　- 一个毁我最亲爱的姐姐幸福的人，怎么会打动我的心去爱他呢？你能否认你拆散了一对相爱的恋人，让你的朋友被大家指责为朝三暮四，让我的姐姐被大家嘲笑为奢望空想，你叫他们俩受尽了痛苦？

　　- 我并没有否认这些。

　　- 你怎么能做出这样的事情？

　　- 我认为你姐姐觉得他无关紧要，我觉得他的爱要比她更多。

　　- 那是因为她害羞！

　　- 彬格莱被说服了，她的感觉并不强烈。

　　- 是你说服他的。

　　- 我这样做是为了他好。

　　- 我姐姐几乎都不向我表露她真实的感觉。我怀疑是因为他富有的关系？

　　- 我无意使你姐姐难堪。

　　- 这暗示着

　　- 什么？

　　- 这门婚事明显是为了谋取利益的

　　- 我姐姐给你那种印象？

　　- 不！

　　- 不。 有，然而，你的家人

　　- 我们对社交的渴求？

　　- 不，比那更甚。

　　- 怎样更甚，先生？

　　- 你母亲，你妹妹们，你父亲有失身份的表现……请原谅我，你和你的姐姐当然排除在外……

其实这英语很简单，她一定看懂了，她这样说不是拒绝，可能幸福来得太突然了她心跳得厉害，心里还暗暗高兴，不能直白回复你：好呀，做你女朋友。女孩子都想矜持一些。

即使往坏处想她是在拒绝你，但没把话说死，你要坚持追求她，适时关心她，例如今天是冬至，叫她多穿点；平时请她喝点咖啡，增加点情调 ，女孩都喜欢小资一点，感情会慢慢升温。

希望能帮到你，祝你好运

越新颖的表白方式成功的几率越大，所以各位小伙伴们在表白的时候应该想一些比较新颖的表白方式，有人会说，在表白时情话是无法避免的，怎么新颖那你不妨用英语试一试。下面是我收集的《唯美的英语表白情话》，供大家借鉴!

唯美的英语表白情话(一)

1)过得好吗希望世界因你而美丽!

How are you getting on I hope that the world will become more beautiful because of you!

2)你在时你是一切，你不在时一切是你!

You are everything when you are with me, and everything is you when you are not

3)人生的路很长很长，让我陪你一起走吧。我愿与你搭建一个属于我们自己的天空。

Let me accompany you for there is a long way to go in life I am willing to create a space only belonging to both of us

4)我不知道我是否真的爱,但是我知道我不能没有你,如果地球将要毁灭,那么我要告诉你“你是我唯一想见的人。

I don't know whether I really love you, but I know I cannot lose you If the earth is going to be destroyed I want to tell you thatyou are the only one I want to see

5)遇上一个人要一分钟的时间，喜欢一个人只需一小时的时间，爱上一个人要一天的时间，可要我忘记你却要用上一生的时间。

I can meet a person in a minute, like a person in an hour and love a person in a day But it will take me a whole life to forget you

6)只要你愿意，当你失落失意的时候，最需要一个肩膊的时候，告诉我，我会立即出现满天星云下，感到无边的落寞。也许流星能体会。我期待，飘飘雪花的日子，你的心带来了一屡芬芳

As long as you are willing, please let me know what I can do for you When you are unhappy and want to cry on somebody's shoulder, I will stand before you immediately I feel so lonely under the sky full of stars and clouds I expect your love will give me something sweet on a snowing day

7)正是因为爱才悄悄的躲开，躲开的是身影，躲不开的是默默的情怀;今天我终于鼓起勇气，向你表达我的爱。

Because of loving you so much that I stood aside Although my figure left you away, my heart didn't Today I have made up my mind to say "I love you"

8)想你，是一种美丽的忧伤的甜蜜的惆怅。心里面，却是一种用任何语言也无法表达的温馨。

It is graceful grief and sweet sadness to think of you, but in my heart, there is a kind of soft warmth that can't be expressed with any choice of words

9)常常想起曾和你在一起的那些日子。开心、快乐、幸福、失落、伤心、痛苦的所有日子。很想你，很想你……

Those days when we were together appear in my mind time after time, because they were so joyful, happy, blest, disappointing, sad and painful I miss you, and miss you so much…

10)你知道吗，有个人时时想念着你，惦记着你。你含笑的眼睛，象星光闪闪，缀在我的心幕上，夜夜亮晶晶。

Do you know there is someone thinking of you and caring you all the time Your smiling eyes are just like the sparkling stars hanging on the curtain of my heart

唯美的英语表白情话(二)

1、You are the one I have been looking for

你就是我一直在追寻的人。

2、Let us try to be the luckiest couple on earth

让我们试着成为世界上最幸福的一对。

3、Baby,will you be my loveI will make you the happiest girl on earth

做我女朋友吧我将使你成为世界上最快乐的女孩。

4、I can think of nothing else but your dazzling smile

我的脑海中除了你那迷人的微笑什么都没有。

5、That's the most romantic thing that anyone has ever done for me or said to me

你为我所做的事与对我说的话都是我经历的最浪漫的。

6、To me ,you are irreplaceable

对我而言，你是无法替代的。

7、If you need me,I am here for you ,I am by your side

如果你需要我，我会在这里等候，我一直会在你左右。

8、I want you to know that being with you ,It's as good as it gets

世界上没有比 跟你在一起更幸福的了。

9、From now on, you are under my protection

从此以后，我会保护你的

10、It's not being in love that makes me happy, but is being in love with you

不是恋爱的感觉让我幸福，而是爱上你的感觉让我幸福。