多喝点热水，等于你不爱我？

我看了一个有趣的调查，让女生在“多喝热水”、“随便”或者“你怎么了”选出一个她们最讨厌的词语。结果是“多喝热水”以最高票胜出，有很多男生都想不通，要求她多喝热水难道有错吗？

我想，这句话的本身并不错，是男生关心女生的表现，错就错在它出现的频率太高了。

“我今天病了。我感到很恶心。”

“多喝点热水。”

“今天来大姨妈了。”

“多喝点热水。”

“我今天嗓子有点不舒服。"

“多喝点热水。”

“今天，我和同时发生矛盾了。”

“多喝点热水。”

在一些人看来，热水是一种灵丹妙药。喝这么多的热水真的有用吗？有用，可以补充身体内缺失的水分；但是，不能治愈心灵。当然，女孩子都知道要“多喝热水”，她告诉你她感觉舒服，想要的不是你给她讲大道理，而是想看到你的关心和关怀，不是让你敷衍她。在一个女孩心中，“你让我喝更多的热水，就等于你不关心我，不担心我，不爱我。” 她想要的是让你亲手把这杯热水喂她喝下去。不要等到她内心死了还不知道自己做错了什么。一些男人经常会问，“为什么我没有对她做错什么，她却要和我分手”或者“为了这点小事分手，至于吗。”

你要知道，女生对你失望心凉不是一天的事情。她一遍一遍的给你打电话，却联系不上你；一遍一遍的给你发信息，却等不到回复；每次她的不舒服，换来的只是你一句“多喝热水”;

你一次次的对她的状况满不在乎；对她一次一次的承诺，却没有一个实现。然后,你最终失去了她。你嘴上说关心却什么都不做，这和让她多喝热水一样可笑不要再对她说“多喝热水”了，这样的关心换成别人一样能给予，别人一样会说的很好听。别让她终于离开了，你很伤心，她只对你说一句话“你多喝点热水热水。”

男孩，恋爱不是动动嘴，多一点行动吧。

姑娘，愿你找到一个愿意为你撑伞，为你添衣，为你倒水，为你鞍前马后、赴汤蹈火还乐此不疲的人。

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多喝热水原是一句关心的话，因不分场合被男友们用坏了，遭到女孩们吐糟而流行。如今，该词已被大家理解成为一种比较敷衍的塑料情谊般的关怀，就和聊天中使用“呵呵”一词一样受到了大家的抵制。

多喝热水出处该词最早出自微博上有女人吐槽“感冒了，多喝热水~大姨妈来了，多喝热水~头疼，多喝热水~吃坏东西拉肚子，多喝热水~玩累了，多喝热水~皮肤病，多喝热水~你当我水桶吗？万能的多喝热水”，引发了很多女生的共鸣，原本在直男眼中一句暖心体贴的关怀立马发生的质的改变。包治百病的方子：多喝热水已经被广大女性朋友拉进黑名单，诸位切记：嘘寒问暖 不如打比巨款。

多喝热水发展经历2016年，在某网站调查#女孩最讨厌的10句话#中，“多喝热水”一词竟然还排首位，除此之外，另外的9句包括了“你又怎么了、呵呵、以后再说、都是我的错、随便、还在吗、吃了没、你忙、早点睡”。既然说了这么多女生不喜欢的话，那么你听过最美的情话是什么？有网友这样回答：女友痛经疼得厉害，我让她多喝点热水，她说我不爱她了。  于是我带她去医院，挂号，排队会诊，折腾了一下午。最后医生告诉她，让她回去多喝点热水。多喝热水表情包该词走红以后，被网友们制作成了“多喝热水”表情包，受到了大家的热烈追捧，被大量使用和转载开来。

表示思考和敷衍的意思。

[emm]表情这个词最早出现的时间是在2016年，出处常见于贴吧用语，常用在冷场尴尬的尬聊场合。也有部分人认为该词来自英语ummm的衍生。ummm属于口语是语气词（拟声词）可以翻译成“呃----”，或者“嗯”。

聊天中常见的敷衍用语：除了“emmmm”之外，还有常见的网友们号称能把天聊死，把人逼死的常见的敷衍用语还有：哦，是吗，多喝热水，呵呵，省略号。

扩展资料：

emmm是伴随着网络的发展而新兴的一种有别于传统平面媒介的语言形式。它以简洁生动的形式，一诞生就得到了广大网友的偏爱，发展神速。

含有某种特定意义的数字以及形象生动的网络动画和，起初主要是网虫们为了提高网上聊天的效率或某种特定的需要而采取的方式，久而久之就形成特定语言了。

网络上冒出的新词汇主要取决于它自身的生命力，如果那些充满活力的网络语言能够经得起时间的考验，约定俗成后就可以接受。而如果它无法经得起时间的考验，将很快的被网友抛弃。

1、为你情愿不自由！

For you would rather not free!

2、我的世界只有你懂。

My world only you understand

3、今生今世永远爱你！

This Psent life love you forever!

4、对你，不管阴晴圆缺，也不变。

For you, no matter now, nor

5、喝了你酿的爱情的酒，如果没有续杯，情愿渴一辈子。

You'd love to drink the wine, if not more, reluctantly thirst for life

6、我的猫很皮，可不可以帮我管它。

My cat is very skin, can help me to manage it

7、你什麽都不会……我不娶你谁娶你。

You don't have anything I don't marry you

8、一颗驿动的心，记载着你的点点滴滴。

A restless heart, recorded your bit by bit

9、我知道你喜欢我，所以我什么都不怕！

I know you like me, so I'm not afraid of anything!

10、不知道爱你算不算是一个贴心的理由？

Don't know love you count is a close reason

11、我已准备好将权利减半、义务倍增了。

I'm ready to cut my rights by half, my duty

12、爱情使人忘记时间，时间也使人忘记爱情。

Love makes people forget time, time also makes people forget love

13、每天我的动力就是见到你，并和你说说话。

My motivation is to see you and talk to you every day

14、不需言语，让我用行动告诉你，什麽叫爱。

Don't need words, let me tell you with action, what is love

15、不是因为寂寞才想你，而是因为想你才寂寞。

I miss you not because of my loneliness but I do feel lonely when I miss you

16、只有你知我的情绪，也只有你能带给我情绪。

Only you know my emotions, only you can give me the mood

17、将你心再加上我的心，就算痛苦滋味也愿意尝。

Put your heart into my heart, even if the pain is also willing to taste

18、其实一直关心你的人就在你身边，你没发现吗？

In fact, has always been concerned about your people around you, you did not find it

19、佛曰，色即是空，空即是色。今晚，偶想空一下。

Buddha said, Form is emptiness, emptiness is form Tonight, I want to empty it

20等待不是为了你能回来而是让自己找借口不离开。

Waiting is not for you to come back, but to find an excuse not to leave

21、不愿意醒来时，台灯投射在墙上只有我孤独的身影。

Do not want to wake up when the lamp projected on the wall only my lonely figure

22、我爱你！为了你的幸福，我愿意放弃一切---包括你！

I love you! For your happiness, I am willing to give up everything - including you!

23、我起身倒了杯热水，握在手里，却感觉不到任何温暖。

I got up and poured a cup of hot water, and held it in my hand, but I didn't feel any warmth

24、你可知我百年的孤寂只为你一人守候千夜的恋歌只为你一人而唱。

You know my loneliness is only one person waiting for you my sweet songs are only sung for you

25、陪你到你想去的地方，用心走完我们人生的余下的旅程。

Accompany you to where you want to go, go through the rest of our lives

26、我觉得你真的不是个合格的朋友，你还是改行做我老婆吧！

I think you are really not a qualified friend, you have to do is to change my wife!

27、你的幸福我来建筑，你的顽固我来让步，你的糊涂我来弥补。

Your happiness I come to the building, your stubborn me to compromise, you confused me to make up for

28、心已经被撕碎，散在空气里飞，像花朵已枯萎，无法再次收回。

Hearts have been torn apart, scattered in the air, like flowers have withered, can not be recovered again

29、假如可以的话，我愿意花去生命中的每一分每一秒——陪着你。

If I could, I would spend every minute of my life with you

30、喜欢你也许是我错了，爱上你我真的变了许多！傻瓜，我爱你！

Like you may be I was wrong, I love you I really changed a lot! Fool, I love you!

31、我希望你能给我一个机会，照顾你。爱护你。平平淡淡和你一起慢慢变老！

I hope you can give me a chance to take care of you Take care of you Light and you slowly grow old together!

32、只想牵你的手看你的眼…光着脚丫子在海边漫步…只有你只因你。

Just want to hold your hand and look at your eyes Barefoot walk on the beach Only you because of you

33、你是世界，世界是你。我愿意用自己的心，好好的陪着你，爱着你。

You are the world, the world is you I would like to use their own heart, to accompany you, love you

34、明知爱不到，却爱得死心塌地，明知爱得毫无结果，却爱得死去活来。

Knowing that love not to love, but love without knowing hell-bent, results, but love half alive

35、我是一个笨蛋，但是请相信我，我并不是有意的。能原谅我吗？亲爱的。

I am a fool, but please believe me, I am not interested in it Can you forgive me Dear

36、多彩的风信子，晃动着我的初恋。你晶亮的眼睛，引燃了我青春的热情。

Colorful hyacinth, shaking my first love Your bright eyes, I ignited the passion of youth

37、我告诉你：第一是我爱你，第二还是我爱你，第三仍是我爱你……我爱你。

I tell you: the first is I love you, second or I love you, third is still I love you I love you

38、有些人用嘴巴去爱，而我是用心去爱，也许我会失去很多，但我不会后悔。

Some people use the mouth to love, and I was the heart to love, maybe I will lose a lot, but I will not regret it

39、时间的巨轮无法抹去我对你的思念纵使海枯石烂，你的身影永存于我心中。

Time cannot erase my thoughts of you even if Haikudanlan, your shadow forever in my heart

40、我爱你，不是因为你是一个怎样的人，而是因为我喜欢与你你在一起时的感觉。

I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you

41、人生最遥远的距离不是，生与死，而是我站在你面前，你却不知道我爱你。

Life is the most distant distance is not, life and death, but I stand in front of you, you do not know I love you

42、遇总是点点头，想说总是难开口，视线相交的一瞬间，我已感觉到你的温柔。

Encounter is always nodded, would like to say is always difficult to open, the sight of the intersection of the moment, I have felt your tenderness

43、请不要固守你的沈默，不要为等待而等待。愿我爱的帆，能驶进你心的港湾。

Please don't stick to your silence, don't wait for the waiting May I love you can sail into the bay of the heart

44、我是那样爱你但是不能和你在一起，我是那样思念你但是还是要装得不在意。

I love you so much but I can't be with you I miss you so much, but I don't care

45、时间冲不淡真情的酒，距离拉不开思念的手。想你，直到地老天荒，直到永久。

Time does not light the truth of the wine, distance does not open the missing hand Miss you, until forever The end of life

46、你轻轻地来，伴随着深邃地眼哞而来，你走到了我地的身边，跨进了我的心扉。

You gently, with eyes deeply moo, you came to my side, stepped into my heart

47、你有权拒绝我的爱，但你不能蔑视我的爱，因为那是一颗真诚地为你跳动的心。

You have the right to refuse my love, but you can not despise my love, because it is a sincere heart for your beating heart

48、请珍惜你拥有的每一个偶然，抓住属于你的每一个瞬间！！我永远属于你！想念你我的爱！

Please cherish every chance that you have, seize every moment that belongs to you!! I will be yours forever！ Miss you my love!

49、直到遇见了你，我才感受到自己的存在，一直舍不得离开你，虽然你说的如此坚决。

Until I met you, I just feel my existence, has been reluctant to leave you, although you said so firmly

50、认识你的第一天，我就被你的眼神所征服，那时候我已知道，我已经是你一生的俘虏！

Know your first day, I will be conquered by your eyes, then I have known, I have been a prisoner of your life!

51、不论你去舍处，我的心追寻着你的踪影，你落在地上的每一个足印，都会使我激动不已。

No matter you go to the house, my heart is chasing you, you fall on the ground every footprint, will make me excited

52、嫁给我吧！嫁给我以后，我就是世界上第二幸福的人，因为世界上第一幸福的人就是你。

Marry me! When I married, I was second of the world's happy people, because the world's first happiness is you

53、我终于发现，这世界上有丰厚的爱，我不能辜负。于是我想对你说，我爱你，请你倾听。

I finally found that this world has a rich love, I can not live up to So I want to say to you, I love you, please listen

54、如果能拥有你这颗星星，我愿放弃整个天空。如果能拥有你这颗贝壳，我愿放弃整个海洋。

If I could have you with this star, I would give up the whole sky If I could have you, I'd give up the ocean

55、别说你的天空什么都没有，若是没有，我把我的天空都给你--只要让我在你的天空中驻足。

Don't say your sky is nothing, if not, I'll give you my sky, just let me stop in your sky

56、凭着你的赤诚仁爱、多才多艺，纵使远离故土浪迹天涯，又何愁寻觅不到情投意合的知音？

Depending on your sincere love, versatile, even far away from the homeland to rove all over the world, what worried looking for less than a congenial companion

57、牵你的手，朝朝暮暮，牵你的手，等待明天，牵你的手，走过今生，牵你的手，生生世世。

Holding your hand, day and night, to hold your hand, waiting for tomorrow, hold your hand, through life, hold your hand, generation after generation

58、我没有勇气说爱，没有胆量表白，甚至没有勇气说想你，是你，给我勇气放弃一切来爱你。

I do not have the courage to say love, have no guts to exPss, even have no courage to say to you, is you, give me the courage to give up everything to love you

59、我们的爱在春雨中萌芽，在夏日下成长，在秋风里成熟，在冬雪的辉映下结出累累硕果……爱你一万年！

Our love in the spring sprout, grow up in the summer, mature in autumn, in winter snow shine bear fruitful love you forever！

60、春水四泽是你的爱恋，夏云绕峰是你的缠绵，秋月扬辉是你的温柔，冬梅喜雪是你的情缘。

Four spring Ze is your love and summer clouds around the peak is touching you, the moon Yang Hui is your gentle, Spanish Dongmei is your romance

61、玫瑰开在九月里，我的心中只有你，好想和你在一起，没有什么送给你，只有一句我爱你！

Rose opened in September, my heart is only you, I want to be with you, nothing to you, only a sentence I love you!

62、初升的朝阳我可以错过，落日的余辉我可以错过，只有你我不能错过，你是我今生无悔的选择！

Rising sun, I can miss, the afterglow of the sunset I can miss, only you and I can not miss, you are my life without regret the choice!

63、永不褪色的是对你默默的关怀，永不停息的是对你无尽的思念，永不改变的是对你深深的爱恋。

Never fade away is the concern for you, and never cease to be an endless yearning for you, never change is deeply in love with you

64、当你年轻时，以为什么都有答案，可是老了的时候，你可能又觉得其实人生并没有所谓的答案。

When you are young, why have the answer, but when you are old, you may feel that life is not the answer

65、你要轻易的说爱，许下的诺言就是欠下的债，也不要轻易的说不爱，也许幸福就被你关在门外！

You want to easily say love, the promise is to owe the debt, also do not easily say not love, perhaps happiness is you shut in the door!

66、你像一股温暖的春风，激起了我心海里爱的波澜；你像一片轻柔的云彩，缚获住我多情的视线。

You are like a warm spring breeze, stirred my heart sea waves of love; you like a gentle clouds, tied to my passionate sight

67、如果这个世界真的会轮回，那么下辈子，我一定不要遇到你，因为，喜欢你的幸福使我无法自拔。

If the world is really reincarnation, then the next life, I will not be able to meet you, because, like your happiness I can not extricate themselves

68、独时想起你；落泪时想搂住你；开心时想扑向你；兴奋时想吻你。一切尽在这四个字：我需要你！

Only think of you; tears to embrace you; happy to pounce on you; excitement want to kiss you Everything in these four words: I need you!

69、爱你一万年，是我的追求；恋你一千年，是我的渴望；而吻你一次，则是我一生中最快乐的时光。

Love you ten thousand years, is my pursuit; love you for one thousand years, is my desire; and kiss you once, it is my life the most happy time

70、爱神告诉我，爱是缘分，爱是感动，爱是习惯，爱是宽容，爱是牺牲，爱是体谅，爱是一辈子的承诺！

God told me that love is fate, love is touched, love is a habit, love is tolerance, love is sacrifice, love is considerate, love is a lifetime commitment!

71、一种鸟一生只唱一次，它在荆棘上唱出生命之歌。一个人一生只爱一次，他可以舍弃一切置之死地后生。

The birds sing only once a lifetime, it sings a song of life in the thorns A person's life only love once, he can give up everything to man

72、时常想你在心里，日日想你在哪里，总不忍心打扰你，今天只是太想你，发个信息告诉你，我在这里很想你。

I often think of you in my heart, every day to think about where you are, you don't have the heart to bother you, but I miss you today, send a message to tell you that I miss you here

73、爱让我们相见，爱让我们相恋，爱让我们相爱，爱让我们牵挂，让我在有生之年把我全部的爱都送给你。

Love lets us meet Love makes we fell in love, love, let us love one another, love lets us care, let me in your lifetime to give you all my love

74、你的眼睛眨一眨，我就死去，你的眼睛再眨一眨，我又活了过来，你的眼睛眨来眨去，于是我就死去活来。

Your eyes blink, I die, your eyes blink, I come back to live, blink your eyes to blink, so I die again and again

75、如今，你使我得到了这个机会。我真想说，你，心爱的，不要离我太近，不要让我在你的怀里太久，不要。

Now, you've got me this chance I really want to say, you, beloved, not too close to me, don't let me in your arms too long, don't

76、婚姻是看得的见的，爱情是看不见的；问候是看的见的，关心是看不见的，可是我爱你，却是显而易见的。

Marriage is to see, love is invisible; greeting is to see, care is invisible, but I love you, but it is obvious

77、你于我就像冬天里的一堆烤火，不敢靠得太近，怕被你烫着，又不敢离得太远，怕感到一个人的寂寞寒冷！

You like my winter in a pile of warming himself by the fire, not on too close, afraid of being you burn, and not too far away, afraid of feel one cold and lonely!

78、看到你的第一眼，我知道了什么叫一见钟情，从此，我要用心呵护你一辈子，祝你天天开心，永远漂漂亮亮。

See you one eye, I know what is love at first sight From then on, I want to caress attentively you for a lifetime, I wish you happy every day, always neat

79、好想牵着你的手，幸福道路一起走；好想搂着你的腰，从此快乐又逍遥；好想亲亲你的脸，我们相伴到永远！

I really want to hold your hand, walk along the road of happiness, really want to hug your waist, from now on happy and free and unfettered; good want to kiss your face, we accompany forever!

80、很想和你拥抱着看清晨的朝阳升起，很想和你拥抱着看黄昏的夕阳落去，很想在夜晚拥抱着你说：“我爱你！

I would like to embrace with you to see the morning sunrise, I would like to embrace you and look at the sunset sunset, I would like to embrace you in the night, said: "I love you!

81、诚征女友：性格跟你一样，相貌和你雷同，外型与你如出一辙，可爱与你不相上下，给我感觉和你分毫不差！

Girlfriend wanted: character, like you, and you looks identical, appearance and you run in the same groove, lovely roughly the same with you, I feel you perfectness